If your not happy, change it. Surround yourself with those you care about and those that care about you. Live carelessy. When i say carelessly i mean it in a way of not caring what others think. Do what makes you happy and dont let anyone get in the way of that. If someone is willing to take away something you love then you must ask yourself which is more important.
There are always options and possibilitys, just gotta think about it. Be creative. Take risks and dont hold back. And most importantly just be yourself, dont let others influence your mind and your choices. Be self reliant. There are people who arent happy and intend on taking it out on others but those people have the same choices you do. They can change at any moment, some just need reassurance.